Don't say no for me.

Before we had Aaron, I would think about hanging out with our friends with kids and then not ask them because I knew they were busy with their kids. I always assumed they were busy and couldn't do a last minute thing and so I said no for them. And now I wish I hadn't.

This might change one day, but for now, I don't want people to say no for me. Having a baby doesn't mean you don't want to have friends anymore. Life IS really busy/tiring with this little kiddo and it's quite possible I can't do that thing you just invited me to, so you know, let me say no too... but just don't say it for me.