There are a lot of things. I know because I miss them so
much while we're all hiding in our homes. Here's a list of some of them:
- They
like each other. I can tell. They even stand around and talk to each other
when we don't have donuts.
- We
usually have donuts though.
- They
show up for each other. There are too many examples for me to think of the
right one.
- And
now they're showing up for each other remotely. I've made a few phone
calls to people and everyone I've talked to has already called other
people to check in on them. One sweet man was calling people and sharing
his favorite bible verse with people, because it had been helpful to him
in these uncertain times. People who aren't techy have been doing their
best to figure it out anyway so they can see their people.
- They're
good at cheering each other on online. They were good at it already, but
it feels extra valuable right now.
- They
love kids and let kids be kids. One of my first weeks at Mount Calvary my
then 2- year old ran up to the altar and I held him the rest of the
service while he wiggled in my arm and tried to grab the microphone, and
someone thanked me afterward for being a mom and a pastor at the same time.
- They
don't try to do all the things. They do things with intention and
consideration, and find ways to include people in the things they care
about.
- They
take initiative and are willing to lead and offer their time and their
gifts. I’ve yet to have someone offer up an idea to me without being
willing to lead it or help make it happen. It’s really beautiful to me to
see people try out things they care about.
- My
coworkers. We've sent each other about a million text messages this week
and only like half of them were from me.
- We don't have a bunch of old donated floral couches.
- They
care about the surrounding community. They started the food shelf in
town, which has now become The Open Door, and TOD feeds 6000 people a
month all over Dakota County.
- My
colleague has become a good friend to me. I’m not sure if that’s rare, but
it seems like it might be rare.
- They're
really generous. This summer we had a goal of raising $4000 for The Open
Door, and in a month they raised $6000. Also, people keep coming to me
telling me they'd like to anonymously pay for students' summer trips if
they could use some help.
- Several
people started a young adult group when they were in college and they've
just kept meeting because they love each other and are mostly in their mid-30s
now.
- People
volunteered to chaperone the HS youth gathering that's happening in 2021…
last summer.
- We did
a storytelling & music event that was beautiful to me. People were
brave and shared stories that told more about who they are, or offered
music that spoke to them.
- At
that storytelling event, one of the speakers told a story about a more
fundy Christian leader telling him some pretty terrible things about LGBTQ
folks and he said, “I want to raise my daughter in this church, because
you will NEVER tell her something like that.” And they won’t.
- They’re
really adaptable about worship times. I’ve never known a congregation that’s
changed worship times so many times and are mostly fine with it.
- A
group of volunteers assembled over the summer with so much excitement
about Sunday school and reaching out to kids and families, that they
organized this whole, beautiful thing for Sunday mornings with many moving
parts and it came together the perfectly imperfect kind of way that seems
extra holy. Also, some of the leaders wrote the whole curriculum for the
year. And volunteered to lead based on their gifts. I cry just about every
time I think about it.
- Our
confirmation students know the general story of the Old Testament and I
feel proud that helped with that.
- We
have some seriously amazing singers and musicians.
- I feel like I can be me here.
- They are really kind, fun, funny, thoughtful, lovely people. And I really like them.
This got long. I have so many more though.
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ReplyDeleteWe love you too, Kelli! And Jesse and Aaron. (And we sometimes get comments grammatically correct on the first try. Sometimes not. Oh well 😂)
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU AMY!!! Also, I liked your first comment too! :-)
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